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I feel qualified to respond to the subject and it’s easy answer with complex reason.

The answer is hopefully never! All the ads you see on TV or a billboard that raise the subject are lying to you or at least giving you misinformation.

I’m 74 years old was kind of born married and I feel I’ve been around women l enough to feel comfortable with my reply .

For the most part a woman never has to use a douce. However if a woman has concerns she should speak.with or even mss as ke an appointment if she thinks she should .

But on a regular basis of maybe one a year a pap smear might be in order.

But as far as Douse it’s usually never needed !

There was woman age 24 who helped my wife do housekeeping now and then was pounding on my front door and I opened the door I knew this woman for 5 years and she was in a full blown panic attack . She was wearing very loose fitting shorts and pulled them to the side , she shifted a little and what looked very much a quart of cottage cheese came falling down and a large amount just fell there with her about to faint . I asked her to come in and guided her to bathroom . I told her ..hey don’t worry calm down Donna can help you in a minute as my wife was walking our way. I told my wife she needs your help my wife said me?

I told my wife I think she’s got

Chlamydia and is freaking out

Turns out she did but the much bigger problem was she was douching about three times a day !

Oh my god!

It was good thaf she had me snd my wife go calmly over the situation with her .. Turnsj our she’s had it about a more then a week and only hsd her girlfriends who all told her something else . All wrong that I’d imagine was passed down from one teen to another. . She took a shower. And my wife gave her some clothing and sat down with a cup of tea. She had no idea what was going on. My wife advised. Her to make appointment with her doctor.

She had a hard time understanding how little it takes to have a healthy vagina and all it really takes is a reasonable amount of showers and eating healthy amount good sleep. Mother Nature does the rest. Then explained nothjng else is usually needed sometimes chemistry. Gets messed up a doctors visit sometimes is in order but it’s rare event,

It appears from her first period she was dousing and.got into a routine.

She was advised to not do that and she had a bunch of her girlfriends over several times for cookie and tea!

I went to park and fed birds and other critters

A lot of mothers need go get over their own problems and learn to be there for their children girls and boys!

.You don’t need any of that stuff maybe a gentle body wash buts that’s all

It’s got to be a wild conversation when a woman communicates that most men enjoy everything about their wives. Yes ..I’ll go on if you’d like but very truly a man loves the scent of his wife.

In fact I’d venture to guess just As much. As a woman loves the scent of her husband or lover.

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